RHODE ISLAND made my HEART SING.
I LOVED THE PEOPLE,history, charming OLD homes, the ocean and especially the SALVAGE YARD as one enters NEWPORT!


This made me think of THE ITALIAN!
Only because we have a similar version in our HOME!
I also LOVE BLOGGING as it is a way to meet other people in distant lands.
SO, when I knew I would be traveling due EAST I contacted this BLOGGER EXTORDINAIRE.
A PREPPY EMPTY NESTER
asking her if she would be able to meet up.
I was delighted she would come to me and we could go to one of the restaurants another INSTAGRAMMER(Bette Bearden Pardee) had suggested for me to visit.
……..
HONEST TO GOD
WE HAD THE BEST TIME
CHATTING
ASKING QUESTIONS ABOUT OTHER BLOGGERS!
COMPARING
BLOG STUFF
LIFE
and
HUSBANDS TOO!
As we left to part ways WE both REALIZED we needed a PHOTO!
SO we gave it a GO!
It was a bit windy!



AS YOU can see these areNOT THE BEST photos of either one of us BUT we were having FUN TRYING!
WE ended up going back inside for a REAL PERSON to SNAP our PHOTO.


AFTER A FEW TAKES……………

WE GOT THIS ONE!
KATIE writes a VERY DIFFERENT BLOG from mine.
SHE has a GRAND sense of HUMOR and reads BOOKS like no one else I know!
SHE NEVER has TO COOK DINNER!
WHY
you ask?
HER HUSBAND
is
ON TASK!!!
AS I was traveling around and INSTAGRAMMING my surroundings a FOLLOWER of mine informed me that MY GREAT GRAND DADDY times 4 BIRTH HOME was not far from where I was staying.SHE also, mentioned she would LOVE to have a cup of TEA with me!
As I needed to make my way in the direction of the AIRPORT I asked her for the address so I could DO A DRIVE BY!
SHE delivered address into my private messages and told me an ancestor still lived in the HOUSE!
She also told me it was A VERY BUCOLIC SETTING!

Note the REFLECTION on the HOOD of MY RENT -A-CAR!
This is the HOME where GENERAL NATHANAEL GREENE was born and raised.
I found the house after making a wrong turn
AND
meeting a man who’s SON lives in MILL VALLEY!
This man who is related to me holds the GUN that was smuggled out of BOSTON in a horse drawn wagon filled with hay.
IN the 1700’s.
He had MANY stories to share with ME!
I was there for over two hours and I should have been recording .
YES,
I drove right up to the HOUSE and his dog let him know I was THERE!
There were many fascinating things he told me and showed me.
I canNOT THANK
A LOVELY INCONSEQUENCE
(DONNA)
enough for directing me to MORE of my HISTORY.
NOT ONLY did I get to meet a relative
I also had the lovely experience of meeting up with DONNA for a glass of wine!

SHE writes a BLOG as well
http://alovelyinconsequence.blogspot.com
and SHE couldNOT have been SWEETER to turn around and get dressed to come back OUT after WORKING ALL DAY TO MEET ME!
AS YOU CAN SEE I HAD A
WONDERFUL
ADVENTURE BACK EAST.
I canNOT wait to GO BACK.

DESCENDANTS of GENERAL NATHANAEL GREENE

Donna says
Oh it was grand to meet you too! And I am so glad to unite you with your cuz! The house has captured my imagination for years as I drive over its petite bridge each and every day. Come back soon! There is so much more!
LA CONTESSA says
I WOULD LOVE TO COME BACK!
I WILL………..and YOU will be ONE of THE FIRST TO KNOW!
XX
Diana says
What a fun trip!
Loree says
Lovely photos of you and your friends. I am sure that you made many wonderful memories during your visit and, even better, new friends.
Taste of France says
What fun! To Madame Katie: The French have a funny thing with numbers: 70 is sixty-ten. 80 is four-twenties. 90 is four-twenties-ten. So, getting in the spirit, I decided at a certain birthday that I would be forty-ten, but pronounced FORTY-ten (in a whisper). Because why not? Sixty might have to be ((three)) 20s. Or should it be Forty ((twenty))?
Mithra Ballesteros says
But of course everything makes sense now. This is the reason why French numbers are complicated – because so is a woman’s age!
LA CONTESSA says
YOU LOST ME HERE……..off to FIND a FRENCHY!!!!!!
LOVE Mithra’s answer!!!!!!!
XX
suzanna says
OH, this is wonderful, you all look adorable….I so enjoyed seeing how much fun you
were having ~ just love this ~ I’ll take a visit to Katie and Donna’s blogs ~ merci for
your share ~ XO
LA CONTESSA says
THANK YOU!
XX
LA CONTESSA says
VIA EMAIL:
Great story!!! Such fun to read and visualize your adventure!!!
Kim in SB
D. A. Wolf says
It sounds like a great trip and what beautiful photographs of beautiful ladies! (And dare I say… What’s not to love about “back East?”)
LA CONTESSA says
ADORE BACK EAST…………….WHY have I NOT BEEN!SO, much MORE to EXPLORE!
XX
kim says
Elizabeth, Lovely photos of you all. How great you got to meet Preppy Katie and Donna! I have to go check out their blog. I think I already follow Katie on Instagram. This trip was something and to think you got to meet a cousin you didn’t even know. So cool! x Kim p.s. By the way thanks for the comment on the blog and I’m up for a trip to Walnut Creek if you want to meet up for lunch and checking out the new Anthro Home store soon!
LA CONTESSA says
ABSOLUTELY, just give me a call!
XX
Marla in the OC says
What a great trip you had! Love the story about your ancestor. And regarding salvage yards: two of my favorites are right in your backyard, in Berkeley — Urban Ore and Omega Salvage. Who doesn’t love a good salvage yard?
LA CONTESSA says
I’m IMPRESSED!
I am about 12 minutes away!!!!!!!
XX
Penelope Bianchi says
Good grief! My granny was a member of the DAR and the Daughters of the Confederacy!
Should I join my local chapter of the DAR??? Lordy!
Is there even one?? I have all the papers!!!
Elizabeth….shall we?????
Mithra Ballesteros says
Dear Elizabeth, you are an intrepid maker of friends! Please please someday find a reason to not fly over Wisconsin. I’ll make it worth your while!!
LA CONTESSA says
YOU MUST COME TO ME!!!!!!!!!!!!XX
Penelope Bianchi says
The most lovely comment…..and the most lovely compliment……Elizabeth is the most “intrepid maker of friends”; the biggest compliment I have heard in my lifetime. Really……EVER. Honest.
Off to facebook!!!
Lillian Plummer says
Love to read stories like this, meeting up with Insta friends and distant relatives. Grest post so enjoyed it.
LA CONTESSA says
BIG HUG LILLIAN……………I know YOU know what it is LIKE!
XX
Bungalow Hostess says
Love this newsy post about your trip and the bloggers that you met up with…looks like fun!
Great photos of you all!
LA CONTESSA says
VIA EMAIL:What fun you had in Rhode Island! Love that you found an family member living in the Greene Mansion! Amazing!
XX
JAN
Kathy L says
So many connections for you on the East coast! You definitely must return. Does Nicholas plan to continue his summer food truck business on the Cape?
Love the photo of you and Katie on the sofa – East meets West.
LA CONTESSA says
EAST MEETS WEST!!!
NOW THATS A SAYING!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
YES! MY SON will be in year FOUR Next summer with the JOEY”s FOOD TRUCKS in CAPE COD.I may just have to COME BACK.
XX
the gardeners cottage says
you have so much fun! how great that you got to meet donna. i adore her writing!
LA CONTESSA says
SO, you know her blog!LOVE THAT!
I really should have met YOU by NOW!
WE must make that happen……………I hear ROGER’s GARDENS has a place to eat now!
XX
Leslie Harris says
Elizabeth. What a great family story you have! That gun! And from the 1700s too…I’m such a history buff this is so exciting to me. Also I love Katie Empty Nester’s sense of humor ..been a follower of hers for awhile, and love looking at those delicious dishes her hubby makes! I didn’t realize he is a former chef…now I’m really jealous. How fun that you guys got to meet up.
LA CONTESSA says
I enjoyed it SO much!
Yes,he has the BIG GUN and a FORMAL SWORD and I have the DUELING PISTOLS!!!!!!
THE MAN CAN COOK from what I can see from the BLOG and IG………….and he loves to go OUT TO LUNCH!MY ITALIAN will NEVER GO OUT TO LUNCH…….as he likes his own FOOD.That’s another story for another day………….when are we going to meet?!!XX
Penelope Bianchi says
NOOOOOOOO!! NOT the last STORY!!!
Please we beg you…….there are more stories from the EAstern trip! (I cannot copy Elizbaeth….I just make a mess!!!)
That shot of the salvage place (I have been going to Newport…..home of my closest friend and my daughter’s godmother) for 45 years.) Did I ever spy it???? NOOOOOOOO!! Missed it entirely!
That front thing……the cherubs…..the basket……I may need to go! Lordy!!!
MOre stories……absolutely….you have more. Do tell!!!!
LA CONTESSA says
It is REALLY AN ANTIQUE SHOP!RIGHT AFTER THE BRIDGE by the OLD CEMETERY.I bet it has been there for about 20 years………but I really do not know.I recognized his logo from SOUTHERN ACCENTS magazine I think or even VERANDA.I called it SALVAGE as ALL YOU See when you drive by are HUGE IRON GATES………….that just made my HEAD spin!I STOPPED on my way OUT of TOWN………..couldNOT HELP MYSELF.
YOU and I could have BUILT ourselves each a FOLLY with FINDS from HERE………….
WATCH OUT……. ELMS FOLLIES here comes PENELOPE’s & ELIZABETH’s vision of what should be in OUR GARDENS with chickens………..XO
Penelope Bianchi says
WE WILL DO FOLLIES! WE CAN START AT THE SAME TIME!!!
Penelope Bianchi says
I have an opinion on the immense and immediate success Of La Contessa; in the blog world. I am not a scientist….(HA!); nor a mathematician (HA!). However, I think I have the answer.
La Contessa…..aka “the Vintage Contessa”; Is “FUN”!!! She is many more things….beautiful, talented, funny, loving, caring, has great stories……she is a complete “STAR”. I just think that at the core of her tremendous appeal…..there is this amazing streak of “FUN”!
“Fun” is becoming an endangered species…..Grab it whenever you can.
La Contessa is a lot of beautiful and wonderful things! Fun is one of them!!!
Aren’t we so lucky for her blog….and instagram……and lucky me to know her! Yikes!!!
Not too many of these walking around!
Blogland is a magical place!!! Lucky us!!!
LA CONTESSA says
“Fun” is becoming an endangered species…”……..I THINK YOU ARE RIGHT!
VERY FEW PEOPLE Now a days have FUN in their day.WE ARE ALL SO BUSY running around WE forget to SEIZE the MOMENT, GRAB a COFFEE with a friend, pick up the HOUSE PHONE and call a FRIEND(Mine you can still hear so MUCH better then the cell phones!)I DO TRY and PUT FUN into each and every DAY!MY FUN today is going to get my NEW prescription reading glasses……..they are PURPLE!My FUN yesterday after doing my MOTHER’s laundry and ironing her shirts and making the DELIVERY was to sit in the GARDEN on a chaise lounge with my CORGI and turn page by Page of a book I bought myself way back in the SPRING time called CECIL BEATON.
PENELOPE…………..I SAID YOUR LINE TO MYSELF YESTERDAY!MY GOD THESE PEOPLE KNEW HOW TO HAVE FUN!THE COSTUMES and THE POSING was incredible not to be FORGOTTEN the PARTIES where one REALLY DRESSED and had a GOOD TIME.
XO
Shireen says
Nooooooo! Not the last story! We want more!!!! Please take another trip and take us along in your blog! ??????????
Thank you Contessa for the beautiful pictures and story!
Jennifer says
Such an amazing adventure. I love you and your selfie stick! More photo’s please. xox
Jacqueline says
Oh Elizabeth, you do get around …. makes my life seem very mundane !! We have been to Newport though … we had a house on the beach !!
How exciting to find some family history and what a beautiful house.
…. and, isn’t it great meeting up with bloggers … I’ve only met two but we had such a lovely time. XXXX
stephanie thonet says
that sounded like such a fun trip!
i’ve been reading katie’s blog on and off now for weeks and SO love laughing at the way she writes!
i love what you were wearing!
stephanie thonet
Katie Clooney says
Hello dear CONTESSA! I LOVE seeing our pics of our lovely LUNCHEON in NEWPORT! Hopefully, you can come for a VISIT next summer. I mentioned YOU in my HODGEPODGE post today. Hope your week is a ROYAL one!!
LA CONTESSA says
I SAW.
YOU ARE SO KIND and SO HUGELY FUN I CANNOT STAND IT!CAN you believe I had been to THREE of those places that magazine called DESERTS!!!!!!!!!
Typing with MY new readers…………NOT SURE YET if I will ADORE THESE SPECTACLES.
MY week is rather LOW KEY………………but I will try to make some ROYAL MOVES!!!
XX
Stella says
Great blog. Now realize that I must read your blogs from the very beginning.. And the red opera coat…..swoon……
LA CONTESSA says
GO to HOME page and click under LA CONTESSA.If you click on that photo it will take YOU on the journey with CARLA the photographer and MYSELF with SONS in TOW cruising the TULLIERES and the LOUVRE with chickens in TOW!!!!!!GOOD~LUCK and YES that was one of the BEST things I EVER DID WITH MY BOYS!!!!!!!!!!
I canNOT THANK CARLA COULSON ENOUGH for the experience!
XX
tara dillard says
Just joined my local chapter DAR, Henry Walton in Madison, GA. Loved how the paperwork referred to my ancestor/s as, PATRIOT.
If you’re ever slow (ha) revisit this post and at least quadruple all the stories.
1st outfit, divine. But they all are !
XO T
LA CONTESSA says
GOT IT and THANK YOU!
Now, I must google HENRY!!!!!!!MY GRAT GRAND DADDY died and is buried in GA.
IN SAVANNAH…………perhaps they KNEW EACH OTHER???
Have to go LOOK at FIRST OUTFIT!
XO
SAJ says
Love that house!! Looks like they have some nice antiques in there too! New England is magical. Have you ever been in the fall? I think it’s best in October or even November. I think part of my Thanksgiving obsession is that I was in Massachusetts in late October once when I was little and my bedroom overlooked a cranberry bog. Absolutely inspiring! The house’s driveway snaked around the bog so I would just walk up and down observing how they harvested and how stunning the cranberry looked against the misty grey and the placid water.
LA CONTESSA says
YEP!
The house is from the 1700’s and the original wallpaper is still in the Master bedroom!
BUT he had recently been robbed so did not want any photos up………he did allow me to take him and the GUN which had a name which I cannot recall…MUSKET?I had read about the GUN being smuggled out of BOSTON years ago so when he told me THAT I nearly fell over.
I would have LOVED that experience TOO a CRANBERRY BOG, I almost wrote BLOG!
Beautiful Memories……….XX
Dore @BurlapLuxe says
What a wonderful meeting with blogger friends, this is the true beauty in blogging that one can not find anywhere but blogger…maybe perhaps a I.G meet up! yet blogging is where the true strength of ones story begins. Contessa, you never looked better and this travel did you well. It’s always great to meet family and the history that connects one to family roots.
Your photos are great they truly tell of your visit, as for the salvage yard how exciting and treasured finds always excite.
I know you have many more stories tucked away ready to be told, until then we shall wait.
Contessa my dear you are a force to reckon with and a wealth of entertainment in all you do and write about.
I am sure you will treasure your visit, as they will treasure yours.
A beautiful month of October to look forward to.
Xx
Dore
LA CONTESSA says
YOU write such BEAUTIFUL things about me that I will CALL YOU THIS WEEK just to say THANK YOU in person………I should have your number SOMEWHERE!
XX
Ms. Mary says
So happy you got to take this trip. It looks like you covered a lot of area, saw your beautiful son, met some great folks, and had a fun time. What more do we hope for when we travel?
My mother would’ve said about you that “you never met a stranger”. People are drawn to you, and with great results! Thanks, again, for bringing us along! <3
LA CONTESSA says
OH MARY MARY………thank you for reading and commenting EVERY SINGLE POST!
ONE DAY I WILL MEET YOU!
IT MAYBE in the MIDWEST for a wedding??!!!!!!!!!!!
Now, that is something to LOOK forward too!!!!!!
XX
Lisa says
Such an excellent adventure! Those moments of serendipity and connection are what can make or break a trip. So glad you had fun.
Merisi says
I am sneaking in here in the cover of darkness because I am so ashamed of not having been around for so long! I have no excuse(s). Well, even if I had, they would all be so boring, and I am having way more fun catching up with your serious fun up EAST! (Excuse me for stealing the Upper Case Letters.)
Abbraccione, hugs,
Merisi
LA CONTESSA says
GRAZIE BELLA……………I get it!!!
WE BLOGGERS have a LOT to READ!
XX
Karen Persson says
Your stories and photos are such a delight to read and see. You’re also so funny! Love the laughing photos. You’re really full of energy… so much vibrant and inspiring plus positive energy. We need more people like you in the world!
Love,
Karenxoxx
LA CONTESSA says
I take that as ONE of THE BEST COMPLIMENTS I have EVER RECEIVED!!!!!!!!!!
I look forward to my portrait!!!!
XO
Penelope Bianchi says
Yes, La Contessa! You are correct! It is the best possible compliment ANYONE can receive, in my book!!!
And you deserve it all!
Karen Persson says
I wasn’t exaggerating with that compliment. Btw, I saw some photos on your newest blog post which I think are also good for the portrait!
xoxo
Peg Burke says
Dear Contessa,
I just discovered your blog and am binge reading your posts! Your style I love! Your writing style as well! I have a question which may be too personal to respond to so please excuse me if that is the case. There is a photo of you holding your ‘grand dog’ in your ‘Trip back east’. Your makeup in that photo is the creamy look I adore but can never achieve. If this is something you can divulge to this humble reader I would be most grateful. And yet one more question. Have you taken your readers on a tour of your house in any of your post? Talk about personal questions! So I shall end…for now! Thank you for sharing your unique style!
A new and delighted follower, Peg Burke
LA CONTESSA says
HELLOO………PEG!
SO HAPPY YOU FOUND ME!TO answer your question YES, I think I did a post on my CASA and it was NOT a BIG HIT!I have been told I am a GREAT SELFIE PHOTO taker but MY photos of my HOME areNOT SO GOOD!!!!
Another BLOGGER did take some photos of my HOME which are HERE http://lostinarles.blogspot.com/2016/07/casa-kirkpatrick-interiors-chez-la.html
Not the complete HOUSE but well………YOU WILL GET THE IDEA!
Are you on INSTAGRAM?My CODE NAME there is antiquegoddess.
TOMORROW I will give you a SHOT of my BATHROOM!!!In case you are not on IG you can go to HOME here on MY BLOG and see it on the LEFT SIDEBAR.
MY MAKE UP SECRET is a GAL NAMED IGA!SHE IS POLISH and PERFORMS HER MAGIC HANDS ALL OVER MY FACE once a month………….she is in CALIFORNIA where are YOU?!!
She has me using a product called GERMAINE DE CAPUCCINI.It hails from SPAIN and I ABSOLUTELY LOVE IT!Been using it for the last THREE YEARS.I too have seen a BIG DIFFERENCE in my SKIN!
THANK YOU THANK YOU for finding me and COMMENTING!!!I will answer ANY QUESTION if I CAN……….WE are ALL in this AGING process TOGETHER!!WE MUST HELP EACH OTHER and have FUN DOING IT!!!!!!!!
XX
Penelope Bianchi says
LORD HAVE MERCY! THAT IS WHAT MY GRANNY WOULD SAY!
CHARISMA……NOT ONE MORE WORD IS NECESSARY…..THIS WOMAN IS GOING TO TAKE OVER THE BLOGOSPHERE…..AND SHE SHOULD. POSITIVE, LOVING, SMART..CREATIVE, ENTHUSIASTIC, LOVING, DID I ALREADY SAY SMART?….THIS GIRL HAS IT ALL…….
I AM TRYING TO STILL SUBSCRIBE TO ALL HER COMMENTS…..BUT MY EMAIL IS DROWNING……
WHAT A STAR@ (SHE SAYS SHE ISN’T…..BUT WE KNOW HER!) SHE WOULD NEVER SAY SHE WAS……….BUT SHE IS!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
LA CONTESSA! BRAVA!!!!
Anita @ Vue at Jindivick says
You really made the most of every minute on your last trip Elizabeth.
New places, new people………a huge adventure.
So where to next Sunshine???
A trip to Highgrove???
I believe the chap who owns the place has a lovely garden……hehehehe.
You know how to embrass fun, and fun just seems to keep finding you.
Ciao Bella
Neat xx
LA CONTESSA says
I have NO IDEA where to NEXT……….for the moment HERE at HOME with THE ITALIAN.
DO you think CHARLIE would let me in if I just show UP one day!?I wonder what will happen to that HOUSE………will they keep it in the family?Maybe HARRY will take it over……………..time will tell and HOPEFULLY WE will be around to see it ALL HAPPEN!
HAVE YOU SEEN PHOTOS OF KATE IN RED IN CANADA!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
SHE IS ABSOLUTELY STUNNING!
I CANNOT GET ENOUGH OF HER………did I tell you I sent her an engagement GIFT to her parents HOME!Of course, I never heard BACK………………but I know she GOT IT!
XO
Penelope Bianchi says
You are so right! Elizabeth embraces fun! And if you are open to it, you want it, and you embrace it! It fine too!! And just read her blog say all of them from the very first one it’s all about fun!! Fantasy creativity and making magic everywhere she goes! I’m going to see her house in the next month and I will report! And I know I will practically stop breathing when I get in the front door! I knew her aunt here in Montecito and she was one of my biggest idols! I’m way older than ELIZABETH!
Mary-Jill Bellhouse says
Please take a recorder with you next time, Contessa! It is ESPECIALLY important to capture the unexpected stories by the tail, before they disappear!! First time on your blog … LOVELY !! XX
LA CONTESSA says
SILLY me had the I~PHONE in hand but needed the batteries to find my way to the HOTEL otherwise, I would have…………………
A BIG WELCOME!!!!!
THANK YOU!
XX
Helen Tilston says
Hello Contessa,
I just love your joy for life and enthusiasm. As my father would say “the grass will never grow at your feet” That is meant as a great compliment. The Gaelic language does not always translate well. The entire series of coincidences and connections on this trip is marvellous an no doubt you were accompanied by a choir of angels. You are delightful and I love how you loved Ellie who recently died. Don’t ever change.
LA CONTESSA says
OH HELEN!
I had NO IDEA you were FOLLOWING ME!YEARS and YEARS I have seen your comments on OTHER BIG BLOGS and to see YOU HERE TODAY has given me great JOY!Millie Grazie as they say in THAT boot country I am VERY fond of……………..AS FOR MADAME ELLIE I have her cookbook’s OUT and am starting my list………..do YOU know I had NEVER made CHILI until ELLIE TOLD ME HOW!She is in MY HEART………….ALWAYS.
XX
Emily says
Everyone looks so happy, comfortable, and at ease with each other in the photos. You look like you were with old friends. What a delight!
Jen says
You always have the most fabulous adventures. Anytime you want to come to Oakville in Canada, I’ll happily play hostess.
LA CONTESSA says
WOULD LOVE TO MEET YOU!
XX
Sandra says
Wait a second. Where’s my comment? I know I read this and commented. How could I not? But instead of writing about this post I want to commend @PennyBianchi. Right on woman. Elizabeth is both a force of nature and Auntie Mame all wrapped up in a ribbon of joy! Love all of your posts and Instagrams and adventures!
Penelope Bianchi says
Correct! Bravo! and she is a life gift!!
Brava, Contessa!!!
LA CONTESSA says
AUNTIE MAME was my FAVORITE MOVIE as a child………..along with THE SOUND OF MUSIC and MARY POPPINS………………..YOU TWO ARE MY MAIN CHEERLEADERS!!
I thank YOU BOTH for being in MY LIFE and giving ME JOY!
XO
Summer says
Loving your blog and photos! Happy Sunday !
Merisi in Vienna says
I swear I read about your East Coast adventures, but must have forgotten to click on the publish button after I typed my comment!
Tarred and feathered,
Merisi
Lillian Plummer says
Same here I know I commented but can no longer see it. Just wanted you to know that Indid read it and enjoyed it immensely.