
“SHE IS THE WOMAN WHO…
DOES NOT CONSUME GARMENTS, SHE LIVES HER LIFE IN THEM AND DRESSES HONESTLY.
HAS ORIGINAL STYLE WITHOUT BEING ECCENTRIC.
CHOOSES GARMENTS AND EXPERIENCES THAT ALLOW HER TO BE THE SELF SHE IS AND THE SELF THAT IS ALWAYS BECOMING.
LIKES SPECIAL, CAREFULLY EDITED AND CURATED COLLECTIONS
IS SOMBER, SEDUCTIVE AND ROMANTIC.
HAS THE STRENGTH NOT TO BE PART OF A GROUP EVEN WHILE SHE IS DELIGHTEDLY PART OF A GROUP(S).
IS ABLE TO EXPRESS UNCERTAINTIES, FEARS AND CONTRADICTIONS
HAS A LIFE THAT IS LIVED IN NEIGHBORHOODS, WORKPLACES AND WITH FAMILIES AND FRIENDS.
WALKS THE FINE LINE BETWEEN REBELLION AND CONVENTION BECAUSE SHE HAS TO
HAS INTEGRITY IN THAT SHE CAN EMBRACE OPPOSING TENSION
IS BECOMING INCREASINGLY EXPERIMENTAL.
RELISHES THE FULLY LIVED LIFE
IS INTERESTED IN MEANING AND MEMORY.
OCCUPIES CULTURAL SPACE WITH CONFIDENCE.
REPUDIATES INVISIBILITY.
HAS UNFINISHED BUSINESS
OPEN TO SERENDIPITY, SHE CAN LET GO AND FOLLOW WHERE CHANCE LEADS HER. A HUGE FAN OF ACCIDENTAL OCCURRENCES’ AND MAKING SOMETHING OF THEM, SHE BELIEVES IN FATE (LIKE A PROFESSOR BECOMING A FASHION ICON).”
TIME ONCE AGAIN for OUR AGELESS STYLE SERIES.Cindy and I have been partnering up to do this now for almost a YEAR!She features a PERSON and I FEATURE A PERSON.The BEAUTY HERE is you can HOP over to Cindy’s Blog with a CLICK of your wrist.

TO SEE WHO CINDY IS FEATURING CLICK HERE!
WE have GREAT FUN SCOUTING OUT OUR NEXT VICTIM as we like to say and WE HOPE YOU DO TOO!
There is ALWAYS SOMETHING to LEARN or ADMIRE about these WOMEN or MEN!
I find MYSELF scouting out the make – up products and LISTENING to what they have to say about ADVISE!
My LADY TODAY fell into THE FASHION SCENE by ACCIDENT!
I adore her STORY which I BORROWED from her INTRO from her BLOG ABOVE!
BE SURE to have your VOLUME UP on the VIDEO below UNDER THE FIRST QUESTION!
HOW WOULD YOU DESCRIBE YOUR STYLE?
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2.What INSPIRES Your Signature Style?
I really would not say that I have a signature style. I have some signature elements like statement earrings, sunglasses and a bold lip.
3.What accessory can YOU NOT DO WITHOUT?
My statement earrings.

4.Favorite Color?
BLUE.
5.Do you have a SIGNATURE PIECE that defines your style?
Well cut wide leg, high waisted black trousers
6.What are YOUR STYLE STRENGTHS?
I am always willing to experiment and try something new. I am not afraid to wear something many times if I love it.

7.Do you have a STYLE ICON?
I admire Tilda Swinton
8.What are your BEAUTY ESSENTIALS you couldNOT do without?
My Oribe Silverado hair products and my Pat McGrath Lip Lust Lipsticks.
9.Do you have REPEAT OFFENDERS in your closet if so what are they? Black blazers, black skirts, black trousers and white shirts.
10.What ADVISE do you have for women over 50 over 40?
AGE is not a variable to consider when you are getting dressed.

11.Do you have any STYLE RULES that YOU live by?
I break rules, not follow them.

12.What are YOUR FAVORITE on line GO TO SOURCES?
I like Farfetch, Vestaire Collective, but generally prefer to shop in stores.
13.Do you have a particular designer you are drawn TOO?







cindy hattersley says
What a fascinating, gorgeous woman. I can’t wait to come back and devour every detail! I am stuck at a conference.
Diana Amato says
She is Smart and her countenance suggests that she knows who she is! Thought provoking Woman who demands us to ask the question; Why not? Strong post! I love it!
LA CONTESSA says
I LOVED HEARING HER VOICE in THAT VIDEO…………DID YOU?
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Parnassus says
This post got a little out of my territory, but as for that quote at the beginning, what’s wrong with being a little eccentric?
–Jim
LA CONTESSA says
DOESNOT APPLY TO ME DOES IT JIM!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
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Adrienne says
What a great interview. I love Lyn’s answer to #10!
I have been following Lyn since the beginning, or close to it anyway. It has been such a delight and an inspiration to see her rise to the top ranks in global fashion.
Off to see who Cindy is featuring. I love this monthly series!
Adrienne
LA CONTESSA says
HOW LONG AGO WAS THAT?
I should have asked HER THAT QUESTION!!!!!!
What YEAR was she STUMBLED UPON?
I NEED TO KNOW!
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Ms. Mary says
I love the she follows YOU! Maybe she can interview you for her blog? <3
Shawnee Gallagher says
Love this woman’s attitude toward aging !! Great advice for all !! Most excellent feature Contessa it is Fab You Bliss!!
Shawnee xo
LA CONTESSA says
ME BLISS!!?………….THANK YOU!
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Deborah Peterson Milne says
Lyn is one of my favorite models repping 50+ women. It boils down to just loving her style. Not too dramatic; just a whole lot of class and edginess. In my opinion, Lyn is what Coco Chanel would be walking the streets looking like if she were alive today.
Happy new week to you Elizabeth!!
1010ParkPlace says
Ooh… alive that comparison, Deborah! You may be onto something! Brenda
Loree says
Keep these interviews coming. I always enjoy them. I know I’ll never be a style icon but at least I’m learning that fashion over 40 doesn’t have to be boring.
LA CONTESSA says
RIGHT!!!!!!!!!!
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Taste of France says
I disagree with her. Her style strengths are her excellent posture and her fearless attitude, which I suspect goes far beyond just not being afraid to try something new. She exudes energy and strength, even though a couple of photos make me suspect she’s tiny, physically.
Thank you for introducing us to yet another woman who is taking on the world instead of accepting shrinking violet status because she is older than 40. These words grabbed me: “an urban, modern, intellectual aesthetic.” YES.
Beautiful photos, especially the first one with the ginko leaves. And I see the WFC Winter Garden, which I passed through many times a day for years. Sigh.
LA CONTESSA says
SHE IS SMALLER THAN I THOUGHT!I think I figured that out from the VIDEO!
Or read it somewhere……………
OH SIGH……..YOU ARE IN F R A N C E now!!!!!!!!!!!
Loved the POST on TRUCKS!!!!!
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DaniBP says
LOVE your interviews, you’ve just introduced me to Lyn and I thank you!
Absolutely love her style, I must go check out her blog.
Thank you Dear Contessa for inspiring us! XXX
LA CONTESSA says
ANYTIME!
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Patti says
What a fab interview, and visuals! I love Lyn’s posts and she has superb personal style. And thank you for sharing with Visible Monday too! (BTW, I’m in Melbourne Florida, not the big city in Australia : > ) xo
-Patti
http://notdeadyetstyle.com
LA CONTESSA says
THANK YOU for clarifying that!!!!!
Thanks too for the comment!
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Jill Anthony says
Lyn is so fabulous! I especially loved the video of her recounting how her blog name came about. She is ultra cool and I adore her silver hair!
LA CONTESSA says
DITTO!
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Susan B. says
I had the absolute pleasure of meeting Lyn in New York a couple of years ago, and she is both inspiring and delightful to talk to. I’m just so thrilled by her success!
LA CONTESSA says
I think WE ALL ARE SUSAN!
Lucky YOU meeting up with HER!
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Sandra Sallin-Apart From My Art says
What a fabulous woman. She’s a modern work of art. Abstract. She looks and dresses like no one. I love her style. It’s so not me but I appreciate the artistry and edginess of her look. I understand why she was called the accidental icon. She looks like one. What does she teach? What does she use on her face? How does she feel about her position in the fashion world? So much fun. I love learning about all of your ladies. It’s a great series. Now off to Cindy’s site.
LA CONTESSA says
GREAT DESCRIPTION of HER!!!!!!!Coming from the ARTIST in YOU!
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Leslie Anne Lord says
I like her energy and she looks very at ease with her style…refreshing to read about a woman who dresses to please herself.
Off to check out Lyn now…
Thank you again for this series.
Leslie Anne Lord says
I just subscribed to her blog…
LA CONTESSA says
BRAVA!
I have subscribed over the years but it never ARRIVES in my INBOX!!!!!!!
Than I have problems commenting………………..Hope to figure that OUT!
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Penelope Bianchi says
Brava! Brilliant post!!!
Shannon Garms says
What I enjoyed most was the absolute joy in which you shared this force of fashion with us! She is amazing and so are you!!! Your love and support for others makes my heart so happy!!!!! Thank you!!!!!
LA CONTESSA says
I ENJOY DOING THIS VERY MUCH……..HAPPY YOU SEE THAT!
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1010ParkPlace says
Love Sandra’s comment that Lyn is a modern work of art!! She is and like a lot of modern art, you either get it or you don’t. I LOVE Lyn’s style but don’t think I could pull it off. Beyond her flair and style is her confidence that comes from being comfortable in her skin. How wonderfully appealing! xoxox, Brenda
LA CONTESSA says
Beautiful COMMENT!
I agree!!!!
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kim says
I like Lyn’s style a lot. It as fun to see this little clip. I will pop over to her blog and maybe she can feature la Contessa herself as you are very much an accidental icon as well. I was talking about you today to Suzanne Bell and we both adore you and said we know no one else who lives like you! Love this last photo. It’s lovely. Have a good week!! xo Kim
Suzanne says
Oh I just love this interview. Lyn is truly one of a kind and I love her confidence…these photos are gorgeous as well. Kim is right, over lunch we were talking about how your style – life and home is an inspiration to us and so many. I love the confidence that shines through in women like you and Lyn in all that you do! Thank you for sharing Lyn with us!
xx
Suzanne
AskSuzanneBell.com
Kathy L says
Lyn has an urban chic style which I admire. I enjoyed all her photos. Thank you, Elizabeth, for sharing her with us.
Jacqueline says
She looks wonderful … very individual which I love { as do you }
…. and I, too, LOVE Yohji Yamamoto along with Ann Demeulemeester.
Hope you are well Elizabeth. XXXX
LA CONTESSA says
THANK YOU…………baby steps in the health department!
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Lisa the Sequinist says
She always looks so amazing; statement earrings were really made for her and her haircut… not surprised she likes them so well. She has done so amazing well. Between her and Maye Musk, they’re really changing the perceptions about age and beauty and style. LONG overdue! xxx
LA CONTESSA says
I LOVE SEEING THESE TWO IN THE MAGAZINES!!!!!!!!
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Daron says
What a wonderful blog this one is. I have been subscribed to her blog for simply ages, I like the way she has are a really great sense of her own style and that it is always edgy and slightly angular. It almost has an androgynous feel to it and I find that very appealing. Thank you so much for putting this one in.
Much love
xxx
LA CONTESSA says
HAPPY you in South Africa know about HER!!!!!!!!!!!
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Dawn says
I preface my comment by saying that I hope this is a group that looks for actual dialogue and not just fan applause.
Lyn used the word ‘somber’ as one of the ways do describe her style. I think that somber describes her expression. She does not emote much joy but looks like she is just going through the motions. Maybe she is going for the juxtaposition of a somber face and wacky wardrobe. She does have a large fan base, so her look does appeal to many. However, I do not look to her for inspiration.
LA CONTESSA says
THAT is FINE…………we all cannot be on the same page.
Thank You for your comment.
To me her expression is Very NewYork!
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katerina stepovikov says
I COMPLETELY DISAGREE . The woman has loads of dosh to spend . This is for the trendoids. Women with nought better to do than to constantly shop . Personally , for moi , those Italian Mama’s , with their plain looks are far more beautiful and unpretentious. Earthy .
LA CONTESSA says
Those ITALIAN MAMA”s…………..do it right with their aprons!!!
Thank You for the comment!
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Lisa White says
WOW! Lyn Stater! I remember a couple of years ago when a cyber friend in the UK told me to check out her blog that she thought I would find it very interesting….and validating. I am SO glad I did. I admire Lyn so much and followed her ever since. She is an inspiration and I discovered the Japanese designers through her and a few of the Australian ones as well! Although most of my Issey Miyake and Rei Kawakubo pieces are bought on ebay (with the exception of an Issey Miyake handbag which I refuse to buy on ebay), I am so glad I have access to these pieces. I love statement earrings and have always worn high waist, wide leg pants, harem’s and Karate pants. WHAT IS NOT TO LOVE about the ACCIDENTAL ICON????? Thank you, Elizabeth! What a fabulous post!
LA CONTESSA says
HOMEWORK for YOU!
When you get HER email in your inbox FORWARD TO ME PLEASE!!!!!!!!!!
That way I can be in The Loop TOO!
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Jennafer Grace says
What a chic and stunning woman. Aspirational at the very least!
great write up!
Julie Russell says
What a formidable woman, Lyn. Keep on breaking the rules!
Jean Wethmar says
I’ve printed out the amazing start to this fascinating interview.. thank you for inspiration Elizabeth.. great info.. xx
LA CONTESSA says
W O N D E R F U L!
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Cara in S. FL says
Thanks!
Yes, love your animals! They are more ephemeral than we are. I spoil mine terribly to try to make up for all the cruelty poor animals experience.
LA CONTESSA says
BRAVA!!!!!!!
THANK YOU FOR THAT………..Do you think any of my animals are spoiled?!!!!
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April says
She is beautiful and inspirational!!!!
LA CONTESSA says
SHE IS INDEED!
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Cathe Lartigue says
She’s the cool girl of the Senior Class! I think she’s fabulous in every sense of the word but–she just seems like a nice person too–and that’s more important! Thanks for a great post!!!!
suzanna says
We sure love clothes now don’t we all! Love it! XO
LA CONTESSA says
TOUCHE!!!!
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Our French Oasis says
What an incredible lady, her energy literally comes out in every photo. I love line of thinking to break rules rather than follow them, that is what makes for unique individual style.
LA CONTESSA says
IT DOES!
APOLOGIZE I am behind AGAIN in your blogs!!!!!!!!
Don’t give up on me!!!!!!XX
Karen Persson says
Fantastic article. What an inspiring and beautiful woman. Love her style! She’s even a bit younger than I am! Ha ha ha ha….
Love,
Karenxoxo
LA CONTESSA says
Cannot wait to meet YOU in MAY!!!!!!!!!XX
Nancy says
Loved this – and loved what you wrote at the very end about how Important it is to love your animals, as I am resting here with my contented Kitty stretched out comfortably on my legs
LA CONTESSA says
They are IMPORTANT to our LIVES!
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CHERIE says
Great post Contessa! Lyn has amazing style and is so unique. I have met Lyn and I have walked in a fashion show she put together at Fordham University, and what I found so surprising is she is petite and so soft spoken. Yet, her style is bold and bigger than life. She is a doll, lovely and such an inspiration to women of all ages. She is a true trail blazer!
XO, cherie
http://www.stylenudge.com
STYLE NUDGE
LA CONTESSA says
I thought SHE was a LITTLE THING!
THANK YOU for telling us!How FANTASTIC you met her and did a FASHION SHOW!
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Mary Ann Pickett says
Wow…she is just amazing!
Sheila from the luncheon says
A very inspiring lady with such style and great attitude. Love all her hair styles…will check out her blog. Good interview, Contessa.
D.A. Squires says
HOW do you find such interesting women… opening your blog posts causes me to inhale deeply, because it is always a fast, exhilarating sled ride to the bottom. Always. I ADORE Lyn’s introduction and dipped into her blog… she is a wonderful writer. I am now researching fashion for the sequel I’m working on, which will take place on an exo-planet in the Orion Nebula–it is an advanced human society, and Lyn is channeling an important character (older woman, complex, beautiful, dark…) So, not only fun to read (and listen to), but inspirational… Bravo!!!
PPP says
Ma Chere Contessa,
Thanks for sharing Lyn Slater’s style.
I particularly enjoyed hearing her speak on the video.
I appreciated her style approach even more. Wise words to inspire us to be comfortable with who we are.
Also loved your pets.
You are wearing “cat”. ?.
PPP
LA CONTESSA says
YES!
I AM WEARING THEODORABLE CAT!!!!!!!!
SOrry, for my delay we were away!
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Angie says
Thank you For Sharing a Wonderful Blog on Such a Inspiring Lady to All Women. You Bring us all Such Fashionable Stories from Your Heart. Which We Look Forward to Hear What Incredible Information You Are Writing About.You are a Delightful & Knowledgeable Lady.
Nancy Case says
She has reinvented high fashion at any age! I love her beautifully proud and assured confidence and focus on life. Wow! What a woman! I would love to meet her. xoxo
Diane Brown says
I totally agree with the comment that she shows no joy when talking about her style or in her photos. She mentioned a 13 year old in her comments and that’s exactly what she reminds me of..a rebellious teenager looking for attention. I’m not convinced she dresses for her own pleasure rather than to make a statement and my interpretation of the statement is…look at me! I’m not afraid to look ridiculous!