WE live in a LIFE where we do not have to do much DAILY to PREPARE but yet WE HAVE NO TIME!
Meaning everything gets washed by a machine.
We donot have to GO OUT and HUNT and GATHER OUR FOOD!
UNLESS WE WANT TO!
We can tell the CAR to call THE ITALIAN.
SOON the car will be DRIVING US!
DO YOU HAVE THE SAME FEELINGS AS I DO?
WHERE DOES THE DAY GO?
MY BIGGEST concern is WHAT’s FOR DINNER as THE ITALIAN wants to EAT!
We rarely GO OUT………..as we are BOTH tired at the end of the day!
Italian gets up at 4:15 AM Monday through Friday and I can be awake lying there waiting for his alarm to go off so I can go back to sleep!
Which may or May not happen!
I have always been a GOOD SLEEPER.
Lately I’m logging 9 hours a night!
But the past few years have been UNUSUAL!
I went through The menopause thing when I hit 40 and that was a BREEZE for me……I think I tossed the sheets off THREE times in the night complaining of being TOO HOT!
THAT WAS IT.
NO doctor ever spoke to me about HORMONES or any advise!
What is it with ME and DOCTORS?!
Speaking of doctors I see THAT WINNER of a DOC in NAPA in SEPTEMBER!
I cannot recall if I shared with YOU she has me DAIRY FREE as well as YEAST FREE on top of my already GLUTEN FREE REGIME!
Seems to be WORKING!
I went 52 days without an EPISODE as I call them.
If you are new here an EPISODE is when MY EYES GO I cannot see and I feel FAINT!
LASTS for minutes!
Left with a terrible HEADACHE for a day or TWO after.
I am headed into YEAR FOUR of these occurrences………..
I had THREE wrinkle lines beside each eye NOW THE FACE IS COVERED.
LOST OVER HALF MY HEAD OF HAIR.
AND have SHRUNK a full inch and a quarter!
My Bones are hurting in bed and also when I sit.
BASICALLY, I AM FALLING APART!
But let’s get back to this time THING!
I have finally FOUND COMFORT in staying HOME ALL DAY!
IT only took 59 years……..
My routine consists of rising and drinking LOTS of WATER and ONE COFFEE a day with ALMOND MILK.
I check my phone for any urgent stuff than will cruise INSTAGRAM with my coffee in hand.
Next I move to MY HOLE IN THE WALL office and check email and read BLOGS and leave COMMENTS!
Three hours can easily fly by doing that!
But I am getting NEWS Reports and RECIPES and MORE KNOWLEDGE on growing older, so it’s like READING the OLD-FASHIONED NEWSPAPER …….
Which I loved to read even as a YOUNG THING!
I can recall reading the WANT ADS as a CHILD!
Especially for PETS needing a HOME!
MAYBE that’s my next calling!
WORKING AT THE POUND!
I realized the other day at the Market I do not even scan the covers of the magazines that are at the check out!
I have No idea who those people are nor CARE anymore!
I think the KARDASHIANS absconded with THAT JOY!
Once I leave the computer; I empty the dishwasher or clean up a POT or three left from the Night before as I’m too tired to deal with it after dinner.
SAD BUT TRUE!
After dinner it’s on to THE ITALIANS’s LUNCH!
I have packed THAT LUNCH for the last 34 years!
OVER the years I have heard these remarks!
“WHERE WAS THE LOVE IN MY SANDWICH?”
“What NO SNACK?”
“Don’t give me the whole bag!”
( Contessa-WHY? ITALIAN-BECAUSE I’LL EAT IT!!!)
I can remember PAYING my youngest SON to Make his FATHER’s LUNCH just so I could have a BREAK!
THAT DID NOT LAST VERY LONG!
After the COMPUTER arrived into our life the ITALIAN told me I had to have and NEEDED a SECRET CODE NAME for my email address.
I told him I didNOT WANT AN EMAIL ADDRESS!
I gave in and stated I wanted LA CONTESSA to be my name for the email……..
Well, that name was TAKEN!
I had a little FIT and started spouting in ITALIAN pero IO SONO LA CONTESSA!
He shortened it to [email protected]!!!
Had I known the WHOLE WORLD WOULD SEE THAT I would have used MY REAL NAME!
RECALL he said, “SECRET CODE NAME!”
SO, naturally I thought it would be a SECRET!
I GET DRESSED and START MY REAL DAY by feeding the GIRLS down at the coop and scaning the GARDEN!
I do not wear the Flowered Crown to the coop as it would get caught on the BUCKEYE TREE!
YES!
We have a large BUCKEYE TREE in the chicken coop!
Isn’t that NORMAL to have a TREE in the coop so they can perch?
MY day usually entails errands or PILATES or SELF CARE MAINTENANCE which helps with my EPISODES!
After that it’s time for Lunch and to start thinking about dinner!
Back out I GO possibly for groceries or BREAD for THAT sandwich!
By 4 o’clock I am already composing a dinner menu which is small compared to what it use to be!
PASTA is seldom on the menu to START unless we have company!
I may start with a HOME-MADE soup depends on me!
Dinner consists of a Protein and a Vegetable and a GREEN SALAD.
We always end with FRESH FRUIT!
BANKSY and WINSTON and sometimes THEODORE join us at the table and have their own special fork!
Yes, they eat off of an old silver fork that is MONOGRAMED!
Which resides on an old knife rest!
Each one waits patiently for a FOOD OFFERING!
IT TRUELY is a BEAUTIFUL SIGHT!
The animals eating that is NOT MY STAINED TABLECLOTH!
I made PICKLES recently which I learned HOW TO DO on INSTAGRAM!
A gal by the name of braxtonandyancey did a video……SEE this SOCIAL media isNOT ALL BAD!
She also grabbed some seeds from a FLOWERING IVY last year and mailed to me!
BECAUSE I TOLD HER TOO!
Nothing has happened YANCY!
YET!
DO ANY OF YOU HAVE FLOWERING IVY?
I HAVE NEVER SEEN FLOWERING IVY!
BACK to TIME……….so we are at that TWILIGHT time where MOST of YOU enjoy a glass of VINO or a cocktail and I am sipping water with a LIME!
NO ALCHOL FOR ME UNTIL THEY FIGURE OUT THE TRIGGER!
Once in awhile I put an AIRBORNE tablet in my water to make it PINK to pretend the bubbles are PINK CHAMPAGNE!
IN STEMWARE OF COURSE!
Speaking of PINK CHAMPAGNE my DEAR FRIEND from AUSTRALIA arrived this summer!
She had NOT aged ONE OUNCE!
Here we are in MY GARAGE!
I DRIVE THE MINT GREEN FIAT!
YES, I fit barely!
I have had this car for SIX YEARS AND LOVE IT!
IT’s a STICK SHIFT!
ZOOM ~ ZOOM ~ ZOOM!
IT HELPS ME PRETEND I AM STILL LIVING IN ITALY!
Or so I THINK!
Even if I drive in the SLOW LANE all the time NOW!
I have MORE understanding of the older people driving!
Don’t JUDGE them because they are going SLOW!
They have their own reason for driving the way they DO.
I know I do as I have to be able to pull over at a moments notice if my eyes GO!
I GET ZERO WARNING!
Plus, where I live people DRIVE AS IF THEY ARE IN A VIDEO GAME!
TOO FAST weaving IN and OUT.
TOO MUCH FOR ME!
Or
Have I become an OLD LADY?!!
SHE EVEN RODE THE DUCATI WITH THE ITALIAN!
Theodore thought MISTER B had a GOOD IDEA!
Stare me down for their dinner hour!
IT WAS A VERY HOT DAY HERE!
These THREE eat about 4:00 PM.
But they start REMINDING me about 3:00 pm.
AND that DEAR READERS is where MY DAY goes………….ALL TOO FAST FOR ME!
How about YOU does YOUR DAY SPEED BY…………..?
This CONTESSA wants to know!
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PS. AND If my EPISODES are caused by a FOOD I will be EVER SO GRATEFUL!
I would have NEVER in a million years consider that to be the PROBLEM!
I PROMISE TO KEEP YOU POSTED…………..
Victoria Breen says
Elizabeth, you look wonderful, though, admittedly, I am concerned about your health. Please keep us all posted……..there is so much doctors just don’t know! I am still working at Talbots, where creativity is”checked” at the door!!! However, at 78 , I am lucky to have a little job….hardest one of my life! I think they all wonder why I keep showing up, when I am soooo “needy”when I am at the computer………but I refuse to quit!! I learn something about their system daily, but if I have a few days off, I forget!!! Lucky for me most of the customers are “age appropriate”and understand more than the other employees do! Hope I have given you a chuckle……..I love, love, love your blog! (AND have your fab pic tucked into a mirror, so you know I am a true fan!) Stay on that awful diet as long as you feel better. Fondly, V.
LA CONTESSA says
YOU KEEP AT IT and JUST IGNORE THE EYE ROLLS when YOU ASK A QUESTION AGAIN!!!
SO PROUD OF YOU FOR STICKING WITH IT AND TRYING!
IT is so GOOD you are getting OUT and being around people!I feel I need to do THE SAME SOON!But first must conquer the BODY!I cannot be working and NOT FEELING WELL…….
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Elizabeth says
You keep going to work! I am sure it is wonderful to help other ladies look beautiful!
Shannon says
La Contessa,
Such a life you lead with your menagerie in tow! I am fortunate to have dined at your lovely table and enjoyed the homemade pasta!
I too have lost an inch and a half! It didn’t help slamming into the pool wall me thinks.
Xxoo
LA CONTESSA says
OH YIKES I think YOU did mention that!
I am okay with it as long as the BODY STOPS HURTING!AS I will be EYE LEVEL with THE ITALIAN SOON!!!I was taller by a couple of inches!
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Kathy L says
“Where was the love in my sandwich?!?…. that line will make me smile all day. Honestly, you can do the same old thing only so many times before you get sick of it – that’s the truth.
I am so glad that you haven’t had an episode in quite a while. I hope and pray that continues forever. When I was in my early twenties, I had a period of a year where suddenly either one of my eyes would take about 30 seconds to go blind for a minute, and then about two minutes to regain my full eyesight. I have no idea what that one-year vision issue was all about. I was too young and carefree to worry about it too much, although I prayed that it would not happen while I was driving on a highway.
Have a great week, and enjoy some time well wasted.
LA CONTESSA says
AND I have a friend who LOST HER VISION on a FLIGHT HOME from New York in ONE EYE!They were able to bring it BACK but after a few attempts!A MIRACLE.
AMAZING what can be done BUT why it happens WHO KNOWS!
YES, I have received THAT LINE a FEW TIMES OVER THE YEARS!With LOVE in the sandwich everything TASTES BETTER HE SAYS!!!
SO I am DISHING LOVE IN THOSE SANDWICHES……..or at LEAST I TRY!
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Josephine Floyd says
Your posts are always so readable and enjoyable , written with such humor straight from the heart . I learn so much from you , I am another tall gal shrinking , menapause in my mid 40’s , like you I also had horrible problems over quite a few years, but hey I have come out the other side and with IG and people like you . Now I can’t stop smiling , relaxing enjoying life to the full . All my problems have finally drifted away . My wish is for you to outgrow your problems as I am sure you will and get your life back
Cheers Jo
LA CONTESSA says
SO GOOD TO HEAR JO!
THANK YOU for BEING HERE!
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Taste of France says
Your day sounds delightful, honestly. The Italian’s complaints make me smile, especially “where was the love in my sandwich?” In the mustard!
I’m impressed that diet has stopped (we hope it’s a stop and not a pause) your episodes. But I also hope that you’ll be able to narrow down the cause so you can bring back some of those foods.
As for driving, I notice that around here many elderly people (you are NOT elderly–we’re the same age) drive at 70 kph all the time, whether on the highway (where the speed limit used to be 90 kph and now is 80) or in towns (where the speed limit is 50 kph). They will be so slow on the open roads, and with the hills and curves it’s impossible to pass. And then, we get to a village and they don’t slow down at all. I think they don’t like to shift gears and just stay at the same speed everywhere.
With careful selection, social media can be very social and even heartfelt. I cried buckets when Elie died. And it can be good for information, though there’s no vetting and some stuff is just dead wrong. But there’s little harm with recipes. Still, I prefer in-person socializing, which seems to get harder and harder to organize as everybody is busier and busier.
LA CONTESSA says
THAT was my POINT but I kind of got off TARGET!I didnot know YOU followed ELLIE!Did you know I visited her in PARIS?!Took a big box of those MACAROONS (I am sure I am spelling that wrong)and she told me SHE HATED THEM!!!!
WE ALL LOVED HER!!!WHAT A LOSS………….
I have an interesting personal story to share with you ABOUT BEING TOO BUSY!
Send me your phone number and WE SHALL CHAT!
YOU GOT THE EMAIL……[email protected]
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Loree says
My days go by really quickly too. Work takes up most of it 🙁 and then on home to cook, wash dishes (I never installed a dish washer because the view from our kitchen window is awesome and it calms me down at the end of the day). Then, if I don’t fall asleep on the couch, I get on social media and read blogs, emails and check out IG. Then shower and off to bed. The weekends are a lot better. We get to do some things and also find some time to be lazy. Truth be told we’re more active during the cooler months than in summer because it gets crazy hot here.
Really glad to hear you are doing better and haven’t had an episode for over 50 days. I hope you continue to do well and cheer us up with your wonderful blog.
yancey williams says
I love that you wash your dishes by hand so that you may enjoy the “awesome view” from your kitchen window. I do the same thing! If its too dark outside for me to see my favorite Crepe Myrtle tree, I light a candle in the window sill, and enjoy that!
LA CONTESSA says
OH, LOREE I GET IT about the dishwasher!!!
But for me standing at the sink which is TOO LOW for me even now at under 5 foot 10 is not a good position for me to be in!CAN YOU SEE THE SEA from your window that surrounds your Homeland ISLAND?I have a PATCH of GREEN TO LOOK AT and the neighbors fence!Occasionally, THEODORABLE will be walking on THAT FENCE!
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Arell says
Haha! I too, wash dishes by hand. I love looking out my kitchen window while doing the dishes, only I have no green to look at living here in Joshua Tree. But I am at the beginning of The Mesa, so I see great sunrises, a few twinkling lights at night and a dry lakebed. Sometimes coyotes. I would not trade it. You should ask your doctor about taking Vitamin K2. It keeps the calcium in your bones so maybe you would not shrink in height! But since you have episodes, (I am so sorry about that, glad you are feeling a bit better!) checking with your doctor to see if K2 is okay for you first! Xo!
LA CONTESSA says
I WILL!
NEVER HEARD of K2!
Joshua Tree is somewhere I have not seen……..how far out of Palm Springs is that?
Will be in Palm Springs in OCTOBER!
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Nita Wright says
I felt like I was there witnessing your productive day. I’ve been designing and selling closets. Making house calls to some of the most interesting homes and people. Yesterday the lady had 400 pair of shoes. Lucky for me she already had that organized, phew. Miss you! Makes me want to make a loving sandwich for my husband… XOXO
LA CONTESSA says
OH, THIS MADE ME SMILE EAR TO EAR!!!!
YOU DO THAT and as Nicholas did put a LOVE NOTE IN IT!!!!
XOXOXO
Arell says
Haha! I too, wash dishes by hand. I love looking out my kitchen window while doing the dishes, only I have no green to look at living here in Joshua Tree. But I am at the beginning of The Mesa, so I see great sunrises and sunsets, a few twinkling lights at night and a dry lakebed. Sometimes coyotes. I would not trade it. You should ask your doctor about taking Vitamin K2. It keeps the calcium in your bones so maybe you would not shrink in height! But since you have episodes, (I am so sorry about that, glad you are feeling a bit better!) checking with your doctor to see if K2 is okay for you first! Xo!
Parnassus says
Hello Contessa, You talk about slowing down, yet I don’t know how you fit so much in a day, and have time to make pickles, besides. I am glad to hear the good health report, and will keep my fingers crossed. I somehow knew you had a car that matched your personality. I also drove a mini-car for several years, a Mazda RX-7; lots of fun to drive. A coincidence–today I was going through a box of stuff and found a rabbit figurine signed “Yancy”. We got it at an antique show you would have liked-it was held at a charming 19th century lakeside resort (by Lake Erie), and afterward we went to the lake by an old lighthouse and watched the choppy waves splashing over the boulders.
–Jim
LA CONTESSA says
I had NEVER heard that name before I met her on INSTAGRAM!
THAT IS WILD!
YOU are spot on once again I would have loved that SHOW!
I remember THAT CAR TOO!
BEAUTIFUL PEOPLE drove them!!!
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Arabella Williams says
I didn’t realize I’d shrunk until all of a sudden my daughter was looming over me! For 50 plus years, I was proud to claim every 5’4 inches of my height!
It’s a losing battle though, with my grandson and adopted grandchildren all rapidly getting taller by the day.
Your blog post bought back happy memories of packing my late husbands lunch.
So true about the day disappearing, it seems I blink and the day is over. It is usually filled with pleasant enough activities although I sporadically think I need more structure.
I pray whatever is causing your health issue, will be sorted out soon.
Hugs to you Contessa Cara
LA CONTESSA says
SO Sorry to hear your husband has left us!
I too think MORE STRUCTURE might be GOOD for me…………But I must get THE HEALTH FIXED FIRST!
THANK YOU keep praying something is working!!!!
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Nancy Schaller says
Contessa,
You are such a great writer! Entertaining plus you get everything out you want us to know! Busy days go much quicker! I am so sorry about your health issues. I hit 54 and well developed a back issue that I would give anything for to go away! I went to PT and now I am doing the stretches at home and walking on my treadmill. Some days better then others. Sept 4th I go for a Physical oh I hate the doctors. You look great and I am happy no episodes. Keep writing! I love reading about your life!
LA CONTESSA says
I Know you do NANCY and I am SO SORRY to hear about THE BACK!
MY MOTHER suffered with her back too for years……..
I have had GREAT SUCCESS with a CHIROPRACTOR!I will once in awhile throw out my SACRUM!He fixes it in NO time……..I walk in in pain walk out NO PAIN!
Just sharing and maybe yours is more involved.
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Jen says
I so love your posts. They bring me joy. I just returned from Italy where I drank no wine. Alcohol does not agree with me. Nor wheat, eggs, garlic, onions, corn, salmon or lemons. I’m pretty sure they thought I was a witch! They were very lovely in bringing me caprese salads with gorgeous sun-ripened tomatoes, however. And I’m not allergic to Gucci! The diet is working and I’m glad yours is too. Aren’t health issues wonderful? Xx
LA CONTESSA says
HELLO JEN!
I have just put TWO AND TWO TOGETHER HERE!!!!
I follow you on INSTAGRAM!
YES, I would say they did think you were an ODD DONNA de AMERICA!
But those CAPRESE SALADS can be eaten ALL DAY LONG!
HAPPY you got across the pond to that wonderful BOOT country!
I was just saying its been about 8 years for me I think!WAY OVER DUE!
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luci says
Contessa, Your post makes me smile. I am particularly fond of your animals and passion for living.
My life is so different but admire and love what you do. Perhaps, I live a bit vicariously which is not all bad. I have my own eccentricities. I am a medical person. I have not followed all of your posts.
I will say your loss of vision t could be anything from migraine to seizure and many benign issues that you should understand. I think it’s work checking out. Be strong your life is worth protecting.
Luci
LA CONTESSA says
BEEN THERE DONE THAT!HAVE GONE THROUGH THREE YEARS of CARDIOLOGISTS, NEUROLOGISTS and Medical MD’s………..who send me to EMERGENCY only to be ASKED WHY I AM THERE when from the last test I did I could have suffered a Mild HEART ATTACK!
AS you can see I am a BIT TIRED of this run around and NO one seemed to CARE!
Neurology put me on Meds that made me so SICK I lost 20 pounds………he told me to reduce the dosage by email but NOT with THE HOW MUCH PART!!!THIS email took a couple of days to arrive!Those meds were for SEIZURES!
I have finally found through MY BLOG A doctor who listens and is on TO A FIX I DO BELIEVE!
I had asked FOR HELP HERE and SO MANY CAME THROUGH FOR ME!!!
I am SO THANKFUL for YOUR COMMENTS……….
WE did think I had POTS at first!
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1010ParkAce says
You look fabulous in blue!! Let’s start there! And yes I’ve walked down to your chicken coops so I know why a crown could get stuck in the trees. Like you, I still searching for a cause for my EPISODES… which is the word Ive used as well. Have a doctor’s appointment this afternoon. I will keep you posted. XOXOX, Brenda
LA CONTESSA says
PLEASE DO!!
XOXO
sbchica says
La Contessa – YOU are so funny. Everything you described about time applies to me. In fact, yesterday my husband and I were talking about the same thing! It is so bizarre that today I hear it from you.
I know what you mean about your Italian car; we both have Vespas that we drive around town in, sometimes we’ll take out-of-town trips and spend the night.
I truly hope you find out what ails you so you can get back to drinking, it seems you’re doing all the right things!
LA CONTESSA says
DRINKING and eating CHEESE and maybe some GELATO from time to Time!
What I miss MOST is the VINEGAR!YEAST is everywhere and it is in wine,condiments and Gluten Free bread!PLUS, other PLACES!
THANK YOU its been along road………I will be HAPPY TO SEE THAT ROAD END!
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Lisa White says
I have been practicing slowing time and holding moments in my mind. I started practicing this with my friend who was battling ovarian cancer. Time wins in the end. Ovarian cancer won that battle, too. I learned a thing. I learned to stretch moments wide and really step into them. I look deeply at what I am seeing, take a deep breath, listen, and stay open to the gifts I receive as a result. I notice the sky. I look at the shapes of the clouds. I ask where they are going. I look at the sky and wonder what it looks like across the world. I watch the birds threading and stitching the sky together. I study the trees and how the wind plays with them. Patterns are everywhere….particularly in the shadows. Listen to the wind…and the sounds it carries. NOTICING the world and all its details….just for a moment….makes that moment larger. Time moves slower, then. It also keeps you young at heart. I have forgiven time for taking my friend. I realized, because I learned to hold time still. I can conjure up the moments we spent together learning to master time….the gift keeps those moments fresh in my minds-eye…where time and my friend live.
Wanda says
Lisa White has shared the most beautiful words and food for thought to your readers through her comment. Thank you Lisa so very much.
Thank you for your blog. You bring such a feeling of joy into the lives of others. The Italian is a blessed man because he gets to do life with you. You are amazing!!!!!
LA CONTESSA says
YES SHE HAS………her words are ALWAYS WORTH READING!SHE is a LOVELY PERSON by PHONE as I have had the pleasure a few times as well!
I will be CETAIN TO TELL THE ITALIAN!!!!
Somehow, that will crack a BIG SMILE with HIM!!!
Not sure HE would AGREE!!!!
THANK YOU you are very kind!
XX
yancey williams says
Lisa, your comment is pure poetry. We should all attempt to live as you do. I am blessed to have read your words.
LA CONTESSA says
BEAUTIFUL……………….I do enjoy the moments!
SO SORRY ABOUT YOUR FRIEND…………THAT CANCER!!!!BE GONE!!!
A BEAUTIFUL THOUGHT YOU SHARED WITH US!
THANK YOU for BEING YOU!
XO
Judith says
This is one of the loveliest things I have ever read.
Ellie’s friend says
Dear Lisa, what poetry your words carry. I absolutely love your comment. I try to do the same but have never really put it into words. You put it into beautiful words, truly poetic. Thanks so much.
Mithra Ballesteros says
I feel your fatigue over that lunch responsibility. Somehow those simple tasks take on baggage over the years, making them seem heavier and more burdensome. But I’m glad you are feeling better!
LA CONTESSA says
THANK YOU!
Have enjoyed your video of the FARM!
The headstones I find FASCINATING!PROP UP and make it a NO WALK ZONE!
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Claire says
I love your blog! I recently introduced you to my 6 yr old granddaughter. She is very fashion conscienced– more Coco Chanel and Paris than Versace and Rome . She loves your clothes and especially, your jewelry. Thinks every outfit is better with pearls! She is saving for her first trip to Paris. Prayers for your continued freedom from the episodes!
LA CONTESSA says
HOW ADORABLE!
Sounds like she will be easy to shop for!
I think YOU NONNA should accompany her!
PARIS when she is TEN MAYBE?!!
OLD enough to remember it!!
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Lisa the Sequinist says
Oh, the lunch preparations. I’d never do it for my husband, but I used to do it for my son. Now I”m so glad he is at a school which has homemade hot lunches every day, so I don’t have to concern myself with dairy free gluten free sandwiches on the daily. It is a lot more work than it sounds like, that’s what I know. The days do go so quickly… right now especially when my boy hasn’t started back to school yet.
I love all the bright colours on you in these photos! You wear colour so beautifully. xx
LA CONTESSA says
I cannot imagine worrying about a child with diet restrictions!!!
I ADORE COLOR!!
I APPRECIATE THE BEIGE AND GREYS AND BLACKS BUT there is JUST SOMETHING ABOUT COLOR THAT HELPS MY MOOD!
Kinda like having a pedicure and wearing sandals………That glimpse looking down takes your breath away for a split second!
XX
Mary Ann Pickett says
Wait a minute…no cheese OR wine?! So you can’t have the Italian’s pesto? Killing me. Well, with all that beautiful basil…you could have them on tomatoes that are so great right now. Your days sound like living in the Italian countryside.
The days and weeks and seasons do go quickly…you are reminding me to “get out and smell the roses.” Each day is such a gift!
LA CONTESSA says
CORRECT and YES to PESTO as we do not put cheese in the sauce BUT NO to PASTA!
Like your idea of Pesto over the tomatoes!
This diet willNOT last forever!
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Cara says
Elizabeth,
So glad to hear you’ve had no episodes for so long!!
What gorgeous basil!
I trust you know about nutritional yeast (which is not a leavening like bread yeast, or a fermentation agent like yeast for alcohol); it gives a lovely cheesy taste when sprinkled on salads, soups, or anything. You can also make a cheesy sauce with it.
I think it should be OK with your diet, but check with your doc.
I also wonder about other food-related sensitivities you might have, that are contributing to fatigue. I highly suggest The Plant Paradox and The Longevity Paradox for the elimination of immune system and gut biome challenging foods!
All the best!!
LA CONTESSA says
OH BELIEVE ME I AM CLEANED OUT!
YES, I did use that YEAST back when I did the WAHL’s Protocol DIET for a bit………and I did feel better!
THANK YOU FOR ALL YOUR SUGGESTIONS!!!
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Michelle says
Dear Elizabeth, I surely thought we were onto something with POTS! There is a new show on Netflix called Diagnosis … it is very interesting .. it addresses a lot of problems doctors cannot figure out and POTS was on there .. please give it a look and maybe it could be new avenue to uncover the mystery that is ailing you .. all my best . Michelle .. p.s. you look fabulous in green
LA CONTESSA says
YES POTS as gone to the way side after THREE different tests for it came out NEGATIVE!
Two different doctors involved.
ALTHOUGH I QUESTION THEIR TESTING METHOD!HAD me on a slant board for an hour where I could rest my feet……..which made it easier for me.Hard to explain!
ONWARD AND UPWARD………….still searching!
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Anissa says
Love your blogs! My husband and I say everyday how fast time is going! Why is that?
My days are quite simple too, but I love it after so many years of so much to do! It’s nice to stroll at this point.
I’m glad you are feeling better. At this point in life, health means so much.
LA CONTESSA says
IT DOES ANISSA!
I NOW totally understand the MEANING of “HEALTH is EVERYTHING!”
I GET IT NOW!
I know what you mean I open my eyes and think what’s happening today?!It is so relaxing to know most days I do not have to Run out of the HOUSE!Recently I have decided to read mid day!I always have a book going and I’m too tired after dinner my eyes shut on me!So, into the garden I go or in the kitchen I will read!WITH WINSTON by my side!
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Jeane says
As always, Contessa, you are always thinking about what is on my mind. Some days, I too wonder where my days go. Yes, we had dinner, bed made and maybe some gardening and errands. Maybe we babysat grandchildren for a little while or went to dinner with friends. When you once had a “real” career and/or children at home, it’s always wonderful now, to remind oneself that we don’t have to rush at everything anymore. Yaaaay
So gratifying to know you feel the same and have similar questions. Soooo good to hear about your contessa life and think how much we have in common!
LA CONTESSA says
Lovely to hear from YOU!
Thank YOU for stopping by and GOOD TO KNOW WE ARE ON THE SAME PAGE!
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yancey williams says
La Contessa, I can’t thank you enough for mentioning little old me in your post. My heart is all aflutter! It turns out, you and I, have more in common than I realized. I love my home like nothing else, I am obsessed with food and always planning the next meal, and yes, I occasionally feed my cat from a sterling silver fork! Her food and water bowl are on a footed silver tray!
Please know how much I enjoy your writing, it’s like having a conversation with a friend. I believe, if I remember correctly, I first found out about your from Elli, whom I miss so much!
Please take extra special care of yourself!!! We all love you so much!
Yancey
LA CONTESSA says
ANOTHER ELLIE FOLLOWER HERE!!!!!!!!!
Thats TWO in this POST!YOU do know I met her?RIGHT!!
You do know her daughter is following in her footsteps with ANTIQUES?
What a small world!
My GATTO eats off of a FLOWERED tray on the dryer……SO WINSTON cannot wipe it OUT FIRST!He has assorted dishes from Blue and White to crystal!
ARE YOU A CANCER BY CHANCE?!!!
XX
Sandra Sallin - Apart From My Art says
I love the concept of your telling us how you spend your day. Such an interesting idea.
I’m glad that what ever you’re doing is helping with what ever is going on with you and your eyes. Crazy no?
Now tell us which sandwiches tell The Italian you love him? What does an Italian like in a sandwich? So funny. Love your day.
LA CONTESSA says
OH, That could take awhile!
Prosciutto can ONLY have BUTTER with it!
Other lunch meats can have mayo and or mustard but the ones withOUT LOVE tend to be the ones where I forgot the MUSTARD or MAYO!Or was too LAZY to open the jar!He usually gets one or the other!Now if I put cheese in it that will MELT on a HOT DAY which equals GROSS.If I put a sliced tomato that would be TOO HARD TO EAT DRIVING as It’s MESSY!
He eats and drives from Job site to Office!Could be MORE HAZARDOUS than looking at the PHONE!
SO PICKLES ARE OUT……….BUT fried eggplant is a winner!!
It’s a Game we play as he tells me NOT to DO something so I listen and then months later WHY DON’T YOU DO THIS?!Of course, he does not recall telling me any of what I remember!
THE BEST SANDWICHES were when Nicholas made them and he puts NOTES inSIDE!!!
I have copied that technique too as I get an ADDITIONAL PHONE CALL FOR IT!
TO BE CONTIUED……………XX
Sandra Sallin - Apart From My Art says
PS. What are you making with those tiny sliced green beans? I hate green beans. Well, may be that’s too strong. I need a good recipe to like them.
LA CONTESSA says
What am I making?!!
GREEN BEANS!
COOK for 4 minutes in Boiling water…….drain add OLIVE OIL!
XX
I do NOT think I can eat ONE MORE this summer we had a BOUNTY eating daily for awhile!
Never Mind Donna says
Growing old is a B!**H, but better than the alternative. You look good, but know that is deceiving. Hang in there!! <3
LA CONTESSA says
OKAY…………will TRY!
WHEN ARE YOU COMING TO VISIT?!!!
XX
Never Mind Donna says
September or October. I will let you know in advance XO.
Penelope Bianchi says
You look marvelous! So happy things are looking up! I hope I don’t have to give up wine……
I have to find that caftan with that front thing. Really great! Looking through your posts!
LA CONTESSA says
CONTACT CARLACHRISTOPHE.COM
SHE WILL MAKE YOU ONE!!!
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LA CONTESSA says
WITH THE SAME CHEST SHIELD AS MINE or VERY SIMILAR……………I spoke with her the other day and she has a few left!
HOP ON IT as it will be SMASHING with YOUR CROWNS!!!
XX
Hilda Smith says
I hope that they discover what triggers your episodes. I bet you miss a glass of wine or two. I also do not know where the day goes. Mondays with my grandson..Monday night Bridge in winter. Tuesdays golf and more bridge. And so on….
And I sleep a lot too…
I have less energy than I had which I hate….
But I find alternative therapies help me… xx
LA CONTESSA says
I DO HILDA……………..I loved my VINO at night preparing the dinner!
AGREE less energy is THE PITTS!
Good to hear we are doing the same things!
XX
kim says
Elizabeth I loved this post. I can relate. Each day seems to go by faster and I don’t know why. I especially love the mornings which are quiet and seem to hold so much promise. Kind of like Friday nights. I like you, spend a lot of time dealing with house stuff and meals and I also have my buddies reminding me when it’s lunch, dinner, etc. Too cute how Banksy and Theodore are an hour ahead of time. My cats really got messed up with the time change. I LOVE the blue ensemble on you. Your husband is so fortunate you make lunch for him. I can imagine after so many years, it gets old. Hoping you are continuing to do well. I have tried the celery juice and love it. Hugs, Kim
LA CONTESSA says
YOU OWE ME A PHONE CALL!!!!
BRAVA ON CELERY JUICE!!!!
NEED TO RE_THINK BLUE!!!
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Suzanne says
Dear Contessa,
I recently discovered your delightful ‘letters’ to friends – your writing is too charming to be simply a ‘blog post’. Your stories and photos are a treat and such darling pets!
I hope you will discover the source of your nasty ill-health episodes before too long and be free of the restrictions.
I’ve been the mystery illness route myself – very frustrating. Mine was eventually labeled undifferentiated auto-immune disease and left as mysteriously as it arrived. Hope you have the same luck!
Best wishes, Suzanne
LA CONTESSA says
LETTER TO FRIENDS……….I LOVE THAT IDEA!
WELCOME and THANK YOU for the comment!IT’s GOOD to get feedback from YOU peeps out there in CYBER SPACE!
That is why I keep SHARING my EPISODES as I think A FEW of us have had the run around and I find that SHARING HELPS OTHERS!
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Celia Becker @ www.AfterOrangeCounty.com says
Dear Contessa, even though you feel as though your day speeds by, the way you describe it sounds lovely and charming to me. I think you have a very special way of making life beautiful in all that you do. That is a wonderful gift. I think you take pleasure and joy in everything around you and you bring joy to others, even in describing what might be a mundane day. How lovely that you share it with animals, that a garden brightens your life and your table, and that you have a loving husband to cook for. Brava!
Heidi says
Hi Elizabeth,
I’m so glad those nasty episodes are under control. Now to just understand what caused them. It seems like you are on the right path though.
I envy your beautiful garden and the slow days you described. And you do look stylish – always!
My days are different now, I’m busier than ever! Just when things were slowing down, they went the other way. Hubby has been searching for a new job and my youngest daughter is back living with us full time. She’ll be working soon and back to school for her graduate degree, but still. Having two more people in the house everyday definitely makes a difference for me in the kitchen! Seems I’m always shopping for groceries, fixing something to eat, or cleaning up after. They both help, however…we never replaced the dishwasher when it went on the fritz because it didn’t seem that important with just two people making dirty dishes once a day. But now, I’m eyeing a replacement one that is fancy and quiet. Wish it could load and unload itself!
As for me lounging around, there’s not much of that though I do love to spend time with a good book! I start every day with my yoga, then into my studio for a bit. I’m teaching weekend painting workshops pretty regularly now, and leading several 6 week long classes, taking class myself, and getting ready for Open Studios. So, no day goes by without something important that needs doing. Trying to fit in creativity with the business end of being an artist is challenging, but I’m lucky I get to do what I love most days. Still no garden, what can I say priorities keep changing around here. Ugh.
XO Heidi
LA CONTESSA says
I think BUSY is GOOD!SOMEHOW, you get MORE ACCOMPLISHED at least I DO!
I love to read but get so tired NOW and my eyes close and I think WHY !!!!
I WANT TO READ NOW not SLEEP!
I told Kim about My IDEA and she is HOME now……….we will make a date!
Sounds like YOU have a GREAT LIFE TOO………….I hope the husband is SCOOPED UP SOON!
XO
Carla says
Tick tock, tick tock, time never stops. Running a business, a household, and cooking most evenings involves a lot of time. What I have found and what I can thank my father for is making a list each day. I think it’s very helpful for those who aren’t very organized and don’t know where to begin their day. The list might include something as mundane as, make my bed or pay bills, but there is something to to be said about crossing off that item from your list. One feels like they have accomplished something at the end of the day. For me time is definitely moving faster then when I was a child. In the blink of an eye we will be celebrating another New Year. While I think the computer and social media is great, it has also stolen much time from us and interacting with one another. I fear the younger generations won’t know how to have just a normal conversation! It’s nice to literally stop and smell the roses or lay in the grass on a pretty day and just look up at the sky and let your mind take you where it wants. On another note Elizabeth, I do hope this situation has been resolved and I wish you only the best of health. Sounds like your doing something right and hopefully your doctor in Napa will give some insight as well. P.S. Have you ever packed your husband an empty carton of lunch and written a note inside that said, I’m sorry, I was too tired to make your lunch, your on your own today. Love Contessa
LA CONTESSA says
I DO MAKE A LIST AND IT DOES HELP!!!!
I feel the same way as YOU regarding the YOUNGER GENERATION!!!I keep saying they will not be able to look at each other!IT SCARES ME!
THATS WHY I STILL PICK UP THE KITCHEN PHONE AND CALL PEOPLE!!!!
NEVER!
HE WORKS TO HARD AND HAS NO TIME TO STOP FOR LUNCH AS I STATED ABOVE HE IS ALWAYS EATING DRIVING FROM LOCATION TO LOCATION!
It’s the least I can do……….his day starts at 4 am and he gets home about 7 pm!THEN he can be HELPING A NEIGHBOR OR FIXING SOMETHING IN THE HOUSE!He really has a GOOD HEART.I am VERY LUCKY and I know it!
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Diana Amato says
It is actually quite funny that I am reading this today. Today my son started back to school; he is a sophomore this year. Boy, where did the time go on this one? I am up very early everyday. Perhaps not quite as early as the Italian, but early enough to watch the beautiful sunrise just about every morning with my Leo. I come home and set my intentions for the day, and then sit down to that first cappuccino of the morning. I usually go straight to Instagram and say hello to the World! Then it’s time to get my son up and moving and hopefully filled with a few breakfast bites before we hit the road. And this all happens before 8 am!
Keep me posted on the Napa Doctor. We are all watching over you very carefully.
Tanti baci,
Zingara
LA CONTESSA says
I cannot believe YOU go out before THE CAFE!!!!!HOW DO YOU DO THAT!!!
I always was SAD on the first day of school and would get a pedicure and manicure!TO TREAT MYSELF!
I will KEEP YOU POSTED!!!
THANK YOU!
XOXO
Val says
“WHERE WAS THE LOVE IN MY SANDWICH?” I BURST out in laughter when I read that line-to the point that my Stomach hurt. By any chance did Anyone get a picture of your FACE in response to that question? !!!!!! As to the passing of time ……Summer is coming to an end. I know that because the Cicada’s are no longer Calling. I have listened for them since Childhood. I first heard them in the beginning of August-it seems late afternoon is their favorite time-Crescendo hits just as the Sun is setting and then Silence. Late last week I heard the DEAFENING sound on my windowsill. Isn’t it AMAZING that a creature that size can make Sound so Loud I had to cover my ears????? Thankfully I have screens or I am sure it would have wandered in. The second the Sun set-SILENCE and I have not heard another one since. Your FIELD of Basil…BELLISSIMO:) The color Green is EVERYWHERE in your photos- I LOVE THAT!!!! for so many reasons:)
LA CONTESSA says
NO PHOTO!
Those little CICADA’s are HERE!!!!!!Doing a DANCE and SINGING LOUD!
Do you remember the year MY son gave me a BOX full for my BIRTHDAY?
BEST GIFT besides FACIAL CREAM AND SOAP from VERMONT!!!
GREEN IS GOOD!!
THANK YOU AGAIN!
XX
Val says
Never saw your posting about a box FULL of Cicada’s!!!!. YIKES!!!!!!! What DID you do with them? Must admit……I marvel but RUN in the opposite direction.
GREEN IS LIFE…..always a GOOD THING!!!
Pipistrello says
Ciao Contessa,
I hear you, girlfriend!! Where does the day go? Busy, busy, fuss, fuss (minus the critters, furry or feathered, in my case)…My day is rather structureless, in that I don’t Work any more, but the never-ending cycle of Domestic Stuff fills the void – quite happily, I might add – and before you know it, it’s time for lights out! But I’m easily distracted by Shiny Things and have so many things and projects planned/simmering along/languishing that I do get cross when the day is done and I’ve not done a fraction what I would have back in the Olden Days when a solid working week was also a beast to be tackled. Work expands to fill the time…But the suggestion of a daily list is always worth considering, haha…
The social media question? Well it is a void for sucking the minutes and hours away, true, and I chastise myself for not getting around to tending the tumbleweeds on my own blog, but disparate lives do intersect there and without it, I’d never have been privy to your enchanting world!
Good to hear you are without symptoms for nearly two months!! That Diet does sound Austere & Humourless but you are giving it a good makeover with the refined table accessories and what not, which is absolutely necessary otherwise it’d drive someone like me to tears. Luckily for me, I have no diet issues but the past couple of months I’ve stopped drinking wine at home and only having it as a sociable treat when going out. I just feel ruined these days if I have more than a couple of glasses. I once used to look sideways at the Italian lady in-laws who’d water down their wine but now I’m joining in! Oh, do brace yourself for maybe getting the word Ideopathic bandied about with regard to your Episodes. My own health turn that had me floored for a bit a couple of years ago was so-labelled. It’s a fancy medical term to say you’ve been stricken with a bolt from the blue!!
Baci xx
ps: That is a recognised psychological phenomenon, time speeding up as you get older. I have a book about it but, another fun ageing fact, I cannot tell you anything about it!! Can’t remember…sigh…
LA CONTESSA says
I ADORE hearing from YOU!
Takes me TWO READS TO GET IT ALL………
The ITALIAN HERE does that with wine!!AS they do in ITALY!
That is how they introduce children to wine as well!
IDEOPATHIC, yes I think a few of my DOCTORS had LABELED me with THIS and I can assure YOU I am NOT making up the SYMPTOMS.
Yesterday, the eyes went……..for just seconds.BIG IMPROVEMENT!However, left me with a dull headache all day and night.TODAY upon getting up the back of my head below my Right EAR and behind it like a BIG KNOT!This is how it all started……………have not had this in FOUR YEARS!
Honestly, I think I am making headway but Than THIS happens!I see that doctoressa next WEEK!Cannot come soon enough!
I have your memory LOSS thing TOO!!!!!!Drives me NUTS!
Has that was one of my BEST ASSETS!
MY MEMORY WAS GRAND ALWAYS!!!!!!!!!
HUGS to YOU and YOUR ITALIANO!
XX
Roslyn Short says
Dear Contessa,you manage to brighten up my day ,I love your photos in a hat ,a caftan ,out in the garden ,would love to paint a portrait of you ,so may get around to it one day?! There is a ‘go to ‘ Dr in Palm Springs whose onto ‘lectins ‘in certain foods & what harm they do to the gut & then head .So Google lectins & have a browse .Love to you ,still fabulous in your abode ,keep your Italian happy ,life’s too short
LA CONTESSA says
I know who YOU are talking about!!!HAVE seen him around in ADS!!!
YES!! YOU MAY DO MY PORTRAIT!!!!!!DO I NEED TO COME DOWN UNDER???
I was thinking ABOUT YOU EARLIER TODAY wondering HOW YOU WERE DOING!
I SO RECALL YOUR JOHNNY WAS DRESS!!!!!!
Guess who is getting MARRIED in SEPTEMBER BY OUR TOUR GUIDE IN PARIS!!!!!!!!
JILL……..
The lovely young thing that was so capable of doing IT ALL her assistant!
XX
PS. I WILL!
HE WORKS TOO HARD NOT TOO!!!!AND LETS ME FLIT AROUND THE WORLD!
I would be an IDIOT NOT TOO!!!
Susan says
As always, you look fabulous. I am glad you are feeling better. Regarding feeling tired, this could be anemia. iron deficiency, low blood count. Blood Builders by Mega Foods is a great supplement for this. (Amazon carries this and the customer reviews are great.) Also for bone/ joint ache, have you had a bone density test? Do you take calcium, 1,200 mg daily? Even with the calcium. sometimes bone loss is an issue. Find a good endocrinologist and he/she will order a bone density test as well as evaluate your bone health. You are a very important active person and you must continue to feel your best. Blogland wants you well!
LA CONTESSA says
YES AND YES TO ALL YOUR QUESTIONS!
I will check out MEGA-FOODS tomorrow!
THANK YOU for the advise!
TO READ MORE ABOUT ME AND MY HEALTH I GIVE YOU THIS LINK!
https://thevintagecontessa.net/2019/01/07/cheers-to-my-health/
Boy just looking at those photos I look so TIRED!
DO I LOOK BETTER NOW?
I ADORE BLOGLAND SO I WILL KEEP AT IT!
THANK YOU!
XX
Jill James says
Dear Contessa , I am so pleased that you have not had one of your episodes for some time. Hopefully you will eventually have some answers and you can ease your restricted diet and have a treat now and again.
I had to laugh as it has taken me many years to simply enjoy being at home too. It is the genuine connections that we make through social media that makes the time spent very worthwhile.
The basil looks just amazing , is it the Genovese variety?.
As usual your witty writing is accompanied by fabulous photos. All best wishes.
LA CONTESSA says
YES, it is hard to stay at Home and get a routine that is AGREEABLE TO YOU and what YOU need to DO!I do believe it is the GENOVESE BASILICO you mentioned!We also have some FRENCH BASIL that got put in another vessel!!!!Far away from the ITALIAN BASIL!!!!
MANY MANY THANKS I LOVE THE PHOTO PART!!
XX
Sheila-Merle Johnson says
What a enchanting experience reading through your day. A lovely way to do your blog. And you look gorgeous in blue! I never made my husband’s lunch; he always ate at the hospital, but if I had and he complained I would have thrown a sandwich at him and hope the mayo made it stick! You are so gracious continuing to do it day after day. I am glad your ‘episodes’ have been slowing down, and I hope continued dietary exploration narrows down the cause. While your day may not sound very full, I know that with fatigue as an ongoing companion, anything one does is so tiring. My days are so full of chosen good things that make me so busy that I have not even done Instagram for a few weeks or email for a few days. Just keeping this 74 year old body running takes a lot of time. I love what Lisa said about being in the moment. Ironically practicing that takes time too! Hugs to you, creative woman!
LA CONTESSA says
I think YOU have the perfect LIFE!
BUSY is GOOD as I said to HEIDI up above!
If I felt better I could do MORE…………but I have slowed down so much am a bit worried.
I SAW you over on BRENDA’s BLOG!!!
Looking GOOD!
Keep Going and ENJOY every MOMENT!
XX
Anita @ Vue says
Days can truly evaporate Elizabeth.
Its just about lunchtime here and I’m thinking where did the morning go.
I do know the answer………..shopping for plants!!!
Elizabeth, you have a full life, a wonderful life.
I think its fantastic how you share this all with your words and pictures here.
I think too its fantastic that you’re finally getting to the bottom of these debilitating health issues that have plagued you in the last few years.
Cheers to good health and good friends.
Neat xx
LA CONTESSA says
YOU ARE A VERY BUSY BEE!
WHAT JOY TO BE SHOPPING FOR PLANTS!!!
MY houseguests who were to be here for one night will now remain for eight MORE nights!
Whats for dinner is MY MORNING LINE to MYSELF even earlier than before!!!
I will be diving into my cookbooks TODAY!
Hope SPRING is coming your way!
XX
Juliet says
Dearest Contessa – I often wonder, too, where does the day go? I feel busy yet get nothing done. Unlike you, I have no husband excuse. No lunch or dinner being made over here as he is typically ‘on the road’ all week. The dogs take up a huge chunk of the morning … we walk the reservoir. There are so many things for them to smell and wonder at – and be distracted by – that it takes quite a bit longer than if I were to do it without them. Newspapers and magazines are something I miss too. I have no idea who graces the cover of People anymore (no Kardashian’s, please), but if they put a Royal on the cover I snap it up. So much information available online, yet I feel ill informed. Why is that? Perhaps its best. Back in the day when I community on BART to the City I read the Chronicle on the way in and the Examiner on the way home … or a book. I’ve recently gone back to reading real books – not the E-reader version. I like it. I’ll be interested to hear what your WINNING doctor has to say … 52 days episode-free is good news indeed. I love you in blue! xo
LA CONTESSA says
I didnot know YOU walked the RES……….
I loved THE CHRONICLE!
They did say it was a BAD paper but I LOVED IT!
I NEVER got into the E-READER!ALWAYS remained LOYAL to the HARDBACKS!I think I am the ONLY person who was given an IPAD years ago and didnot ENJOY IT!
Much prefer my BIG SCREEN.I think too I was afraid I would become attached at the HIP to it!
TUESDAY can NOT COME FAST ENOUGH!
XO
Helen says
Twelve years of retirement have taught me that this kind of life can be bittersweet. Pleasing myself and not having to do anything much comes with a lot of time for going over old memories and vaguely worrying about not doing anything. Today I am enjoying myself pottering in an unusual heatwave and very glad I have no commitments whatsoever. I have recently watched two Italian films – Mid-August Lunch and The Salt of Life. They are both very gentle and quietly humorous about ageing. Both are produced by Gianni di Francesco.
LA CONTESSA says
OH HELEN THANK YOU for the movie recommendations!
STAY HYDRATED in that HEAT WAVE!!!
I will look for the movies on NETFLICKS………….XX
Laura says
Only by reading the story on the blog can I partially understand a person’s life
The photos and small captions do not say much or at least lead me to errors
In my small way I understand that if you are not well you cannot do everything you want
Last year, due to problems of iron deficiency, I was bound to absolute rest and for a strong person it is a big sacrifice
Now it’s a little better but the activities have been reduced!
I wish you the best and always enthusiasm
A hug
LA CONTESSA says
THANK YOU!
NO, I cannot do ALL that I want to DO!
VERY FRUSTRATING!
NOT GIVING UP YET!
XX
Ms. Mary says
Thanks for the detailed and entertaining post. You sound like you have your act TOGETHER!
Sending hugs and <3 to you and the Italian!
We leave for Paris in 2.5 weeks. It's going to be quaite a romantic week!
Dress-check; Shoes-check; electric converter, international phone plan, Paris Metro map- check, check, check! Starting to get excited. (A little nervous?)
Did you know Sharon S. is officiating? 🙂
<3<3<3
LA CONTESSA says
YES I DID!
ENJOY EVERY MOMENT!
NERVOUS IS GOOD!!!
XX
Mumbai says
my days elapse like a windblow and it’s not the age because even younger peoples
feel the same. We are now in a geological period which is natural and everything passes quicker. All the more we have to care for us and try to counteract to stay
healthy, happy and calm. You know, Yoga and breathing can help and is at least important for me to do it every day for one hour. It’s my time I take to overcome the
hectic life in the world. And be grateful, you look very good…the turqouise color suits you very well. b.t.w. after walking with thick socks my C&K’s fit perfect now
LA CONTESSA says
SO HAPPY ABOUT THE C&K SHOES!!!!
YOGA is the only exercise I haveNOT done for any length of TIME!!!
I have done it ALL………..PILATES REFORMER NOW is my THING think I have been doing it now for 8 or 9 years.
Maybe I can squeeze YOGA IN!
Now I want a photo of YOU in your shoes!!!!!!!!
THANK YOU!
XX
Mumbai says
you should nothing squeeze in your busy daily programm. Only do what you
can and makes you joy. The Shoe- pic you got already via email…you remember? A ME photo will follow soon. Did I mention how elegant you look with the green hat?
LA CONTESSA says
I do recall that shoe photo BUT NOW I WANT A FULL LENGTH OF YOU WITH SHOES ON SO I CAN SEE!
NO HURRY!
Next time you have them on a person to SNAP A photo per me!
MUCHAS GRACIAS!
XX
PPP says
Ma Chere Contessa,
I love the photo of Nicolas and the rabbit.
I love that once upon a time you paid him to make lunch for the Italian.
Although that gig didn’t last long..your youngest clearly had a connection with food.
You know your Italian works hard so you pack him that lunch without fail although occasionally without mustard? Ooops
I love that you drive a tiny fiat imagining you are in Italy…
That’s why despite your health setbacks you are finding a way to be well. Congrats on 52 days without an episode!
Thank you for showing me how to have a good time every day!!!
PPP
LA CONTESSA says
HELLO!!!!!!!
THAT PHOTO of the RABBIT who for the LIFE of ME I cannot recall his name is ONE OF MY FAVORITE PHOTOS!I took that with one of those things we called CAMERAS back in the DAY!
FIND JOY EVERY DAY even if it’s at the Grocery store…………..VERY IMPORTANT!XX
Rosemarie says
Hi there CONTESSA – enjoyed the blog and pics.
Does my day(s) speed by – sometimes and other times no. The day starts with the lovely Bella (rescue cat) crawling all over me at 5:00 am wanting OUT. She leaves my husband alone. Before June she slept until 7:00 am. June/July was 4:00 am wake up. This was too tiring for me. Never felt rested = tired for 2 months. 5:00 am I can manage – then I go back to sleep. Get up at 9:30 – dear husband has made the coffee – drink and read online news – emails and a couple of blogs. Check your’s ALWAYS for new pics or a new post.
There has been very little work for me this summer which is great – I can enjoy the garden = veggies and flowers. Sit on the deck and watch all the bees come to the flowering herbs and the 2 hummingbirds come to their plants. Each week I pick a bouquet of flowers for someone. I go to the huge public outdoor pool 2x week. Sit – relax – read and have a little swim.
I avoid downtown as much as possible in summer as it’s cruise ship season here and there are so many tourists.
Lucky me has to do no grocery shopping or dinner making – my husband does it – unless like tomorrow I am having some girlfriends over for brunch then I shop/prepare.
I’m at the stage in life where I do not want to rush about – I want to take it easy – spread out a little bit of socializing etc. thru the month. I have what I call do nothing days – just enjoy nature in my yard or go for a walk somewhere. Read and hang about at home. This is so relaxing and pleasurable. I’m enjoying do nothing days more and more.
So this summer the days are not speeding by. Fall will be different as I will be scheduled more for work.
Wow the Italian has such long days. The best part is that he has a wonderful place/person/food/animals to come home to. Nature in his backyard.
Oh dear – so sorry to read that your bones are hurting. I do hope the dr can figure that out. What a relief re not having any episodes. It would be frustrating too to want to do more but not have the energy for it. Hopefully your health will be on the upswing in the fall.
LA CONTESSA says
LOVED YOUR ACCOUNT of the DAY and especially how it all began!
THOSE FURRY BEASTIES can run OUR LIVES!
UP and DOWN open door, feed MORE FOOD…………THEY ARE THE BOSSES!
AND WE LOVE THEM NO MATTER WHAT!
XX
Grace Liang says
This was such a wonderful post to read! Your pickles looked like they turned out amazing!
https://colorandgrace.com
LA CONTESSA says
I have not tried them YET!!!!!!
WAITING!!!!!!!
THANK YOU!
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D. A. Squires says
TIME. I think about it a lot (even time travel and space travel, as in ‘space-time,’ a very real scientific term : ) It is ever present, yet unseen and intangible…on a grand scale, measured by our daily pirouette and yearly spin around the the sun, and on earth, by the sweeping hands of a clock. I have always loved clocks, especially old clocks, (I like things that are old more than new, probably because I am old), that gently tick away as the pendulum swings back and forth. The sound is comforting and safe, and hearkens back to simpler time. As I read this post, I was carried back to my childhood, and my mother and grandmother wearing a smock aprons (that were very well used) and the great swaths of time needed for the care and feeding of a family. Your routine reminds me of the ticking of a clock, as you carry on the daily tasks of living–with a tremendous amount of love. To the question, ‘Where is the love?’ It is you. XOXO
LA CONTESSA says
BEAUTIFUL STATED D.A…………..XX